Sheila Kay Conner

May 24, 1953 ~ January 18, 2021 (age 67)


Sheila Schmitz Conner was born May 24, 1953 to Phillip and Florence Schmitz and joined siblings Cherryl, Dee, Phil (Butch) & Barb. She attended schools at Villa Ursula in St. Ignatius & Ronan graduating from Ronan High in 1971. Sheila continued her education at Montana State University in Bozeman and Eastern in Billings, graduating from Eastern Montana University with a degree in special education. She loved working with children with learning challenges, since she had dyslexia and Mrs. Mercedes LeDesky helped her overcome it in the 1st grade. Sheila spent the majority of her career in Ronan and Pablo Elementary Schools working with preschool, pre-first, resource room & multiple challenged classrooms. She retired from teaching in 2013 but loved seeing her kids around town and at events.

After Sheila retired, she volunteered at Ronan Bread Basket where she helped sort, collect & distribute food and also served on the Board of Directors.  She also volunteered as a driver (Driving Miss Daisy) for Lake County Council on Aging. She also volunteered for the Cancer Support Group a number of years at both St. Luke and St. Joseph hospitals.

Sheila loved to travel and traveled with People to People International Travel Program as director with groups of Student Ambassadors to Australia, New Zealand, Ireland, England, Scotland, France, Germany, Italy, Spain, Portugal, Africa, & Greece.  She said, “In all of my travels, I want to go back to South Africa to work with the multiple challenged people. They are so happy, so poor and make so much beauty from so little.” Other favorites were Nice France & Portugal.

Sheila married Greg Conner in 1984 at Flathead Lake and enjoyed riding motorcycles and doing photography with him. She laughed and called herself a “Harley Momma Teacher” and loved spending time with Greg on his Harley with his biker friends and their mommas.

Sheila left us January 18, 2021 in the early morning after several years of serious health problems. She loved life and had a strong desire to live many more years and became a Warrior Woman surprising many Doctors by outliving her estimated lifetime.                              

Sheila joins her parents, Phillip and Florence (Boice) Schmitz, brother Phil Schmitz, sister Barbara (Schmitz) Schmidt, nephews Robbie Schmitz & Riley Gibson, great niece, Ashley Schmitz, great nephew Julian Costantino & numerous aunts & uncles.

She is survived by sisters Cherryl (Schmitz) Taylor (Jim), Helena MT,   Dee (Schmitz) Marie, Port Orchard WA, nephews: Jason Schmitz (Jessica) Ferrum VA,  Trevor Taylor (Marli) Helena MT, Dewey Gibson, Gig Harbor WA,  nieces, Melony Schmitz Candida Costantino (Armando) Italy, Jolene Schmitz, Ronan, MT, Megan (Schmitz) Kramer (Garrett) Kalispell MT,  Mistelle Taylor, Seattle WA, Allison (Taylor) Brown (Brad) Helena MT & Skylure (Schmidt) Underhill (Brian) Spokane WA and 7 great nephews and nieces.

A celebration of Sheila’s life with be held in the summer for family and friends.

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